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Jaime Hoerricks, PhD's avatar

Thank you for sharing. I haven’t seen Tár. What I’m responding to is the essay—and it resonates because what you name feels so familiar. It’s less about one character, more about the culture that produces Lydia Társ, sustains them, and punishes those they harm.

As an AuDHD gestalt language processor, I live in a different register. I don’t climb ladders of power. I share freely—my writings, my frameworks, my lived knowledge—even as I struggle to pay bills. That’s the difference your piece lays bare: the fragility of those who hoard power, who guard their little empires of control, versus the abundance of those of us who give without calculation.

GLP life is abundance. Our words come as wholes, as constellations, and to keep them locked inside would be the greater violence. So we give them away. Meanwhile, institutions reward the narcissist, the manipulator, the authoritarian. Your critique names that imbalance clearly. And from where I sit, your reading echoes the core of our experience: impunity protects the fragile, whilst the generous are left to scrape by.

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Hope Loudon's avatar

What a beautiful way of putting that philosophy about abundance and generosity. That's pretty therapeutic even. I struggle because I have paid dearly for my principles and nonconformity, which feels more obligatory and coerced (when the alternative is complicity) than generous and consensual, and I feel like I have been basically gatekept out of society by those same Machiavellian authoritarians in punishment.

The right thing to do is resistance, and the kind of world fascists seek to create is one hostile to life in general, diversity thereof, and empathy especially if it compels action to protect the vulnerable. I'm viscerally allergic to injustice, so incapable of joining them, but I don't think we can beat them... The right side of history can be pretty lonely and downright dangerous, so I'm glad to encounter you and your work. I have a lot more of it to explore still, since you're prolific.

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